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Three years ago…

June 14, 2017June 14, 2017 / Cressey / 7 Comments

Dear Moms, Three years ago we had our last conversation. I was so tired, having driven from Massachusetts to Michigan in one day, but I knew beyond knowing that I wanted to hear your voice. I had no idea it would be our last conversation. We didn’t talk long. You didn’t seem to want me … Continue reading Three years ago…

Reflections on Light

March 30, 2017March 30, 2017 / Cressey / 4 Comments

“You can choose to be grateful or ungrateful… positive or negative… to forgive or not forgive. You can be grateful even for adversity because adversity in some ways forces you to grow… You choose beliefs and attitudes. When you make a choice to be positive, positive things start to happen. What you focus on expands your life. What … Continue reading Reflections on Light

Exercise for the Art Heart

March 16, 2017March 16, 2017 / Cressey / 2 Comments

Some people say the hearth is the heart of a house, and our cat would surely agree, but to me, the heart of our home lies in our crafts room. It has taken on many guises over the years as I have lugged bins of supplies from as early as 1990 from one place to … Continue reading Exercise for the Art Heart

Octopus Brain

September 8, 2004December 4, 2016 / Cressey / 1 Comment

Octopus brain was what I called my new mother-mind. After G was born, my brain patterns seemed to be completely different. Once singular or dual in focus, now I had neurons firing in multiple directions, reminding me of an octopus with a piece of brain on each tentacle. Did one part of my brain know what … Continue reading Octopus Brain

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Hope you will join me as I share my unexpected, mystical, utterly imperfect travels in parenting from a late-term miscarriage through to raising a young adult. To start, you may want to check out my first blog entry. To get deeper into the early years, see selected memoir chapters. Lighter bits include: crafts, games, poetry, and more on my story. My mission is offer our experience as a friend, resource, and fellow traveller on this intrepid and sometimes lonely—but always enriching—journey.

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