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The Power of Tomorrow

March 2, 2021March 2, 2021 / Cressey / 4 Comments

“The sun will come out tomorrow, bet your bottom dollar that tomorrow, there’ll be sun. Just thinkin’ about tomorrow, clears away the cobwebs and the sorrow, til there’s none.” How those lines from Annie lit me up on the inside when I first heard them! One of the few records I owned, I still can see its bright … Continue reading The Power of Tomorrow

Guard Baby

February 22, 2006February 24, 2021 / Cressey / 4 Comments

Could G possibly remember her journey to us? Did her incarnation knock twice? One day when she was about three, she said, “All da childwen aememba.” All the children remember. I held her as she sobbed, “I waited a long time to get in!” Later she said, “It took so long, Mama, in youa belly.” A few days … Continue reading Guard Baby

Deliverance

March 3, 2002December 4, 2016 / Cressey / Leave a comment

We went to see the perinatologist in the middle of week thirty-six. Sure enough, our baby girl had wiggled, and she was head-down for our final ultrasound. The peri’s parting words were: “Get up. You can’t swim enough! We need you to get strong so you can look after your baby.” On Saturday, March 2nd (thirty-seven … Continue reading Deliverance

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Hope you will join me as I share my unexpected, mystical, utterly imperfect travels in parenting from a late-term miscarriage through to raising a young adult. To start, you may want to check out my first blog entry. To get deeper into the early years, see selected memoir chapters. Lighter bits include: crafts, games, poetry, and more on my story. My mission is offer our experience as a friend, resource, and fellow traveller on this intrepid and sometimes lonely—but always enriching—journey.

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