From my last post, you will know that I'm working on these certain ideals of selfhood. I decided to find images for each ideal and capture them both on film and around the house, as points of reminder. Here they are: And then I strung all of the words together and got a bit carried … Continue reading Craft: On the best self
Author: Cressey
What Motivated Me
Yesterday, I attended a writing workshop with the author, Elizabeth Berg. Among the many pieces of wisdom she imparted, she added: put it out there. Write, and then share. For the workshop I wrote the following piece. *** Following the church spire, I drive and then walk around Wakefield, Massachusetts, first settled in 1638, a … Continue reading What Motivated Me
Poem: Beginning, Middle, End
You are my beginning My ray of light The first to breathe Say “Mama” And whisper “I love you” To hold and be held With you, I learn From you, I study Beside you, I discover Glancing at the path ahead As my first growing child You receive The mirror you need to grow You … Continue reading Poem: Beginning, Middle, End
Love, Santa
From the Memoir. Christmastime 2007 Among the piles of notes on my desk was an errand list, itemized by store. We needed a rake from Home Depot, olive oil from Costco, and from the grocery store—in different handwriting—we needed a dog. I asked G about it. “Mama, I think we should have two houses, attached to … Continue reading Love, Santa
Overcoming Fear
“Mirabel [the dolly] is afwaid to ride hea bike.” “What do you say to her?” “O. Ver. Come. Yoa. Fea.” Overcome your fear. One Sunday night in May, G and I read stories as usual, but when she started to nurse, it felt painful to me. I was gritting my teeth. Unpremeditated words tumbled out of … Continue reading Overcoming Fear
Game: Wild Kitty Zone > Yellow Light
… a place where words can run free Why: Learn to release pain, frustration, and other difficult emotions in a safe way. Releasing is step one for letting go. Understand and build restraint. Honor child’s words and feelings even if they’re unpolished. Guidelines: It’s ok to have strong feelings. Use your words. Play only with … Continue reading Game: Wild Kitty Zone > Yellow Light
Game/Craft: Beading Tray
Provides ceaseless entertainment. Children of all ages find it. Often this is a great warm-up for a playdate and future creativity. Alliances get made; negotiations happen; comfort is established while all focus is on the tray. (It always surprised me how much mileage we got out of this accidental concept. One day I just put out … Continue reading Game/Craft: Beading Tray
Craft: Basic Animal Costumes
Called “basic” for a reason, these are sweetened clothes. A hoodie-set or an old turtleneck transformed with a bit of fabric. Simple to make, easy to wash, gentle on the pocket-book, and transformative for the imagination. Ingredients: Hooded sweatsuit or fleece set (top and pants) or matching long t-shirt and pants in an appropriate backdrop … Continue reading Craft: Basic Animal Costumes
Craft: Magic Tray
This white tray was worth its weight in gold. Its morning project created the motivation needed to hop out of bed (and not nurse)! Sort of like Crafty Santa each morning. Ingredients: A large tray, preferably white or a solid color to offset the project... plus basics near the tray everyday: Colored pens or pencils Pencil … Continue reading Craft: Magic Tray
Finding the Roots
I started visualizing G's emotional releases like pulling weeds. Carefully taking hold of her focus, trying to find the stem cause, and then teasing it out to see if we could get access to the deepest roots. Not only were we working on the issue at hand, we were also making space for sunlight to hit … Continue reading Finding the Roots
Where I End & She Begins 